Rapper T.I. says he takes his teen to the gynecologist to confirm her hymen is ‘still intact’
“Right
after her birthday, we celebrate, then usually like the day after the
party, she’s enjoying the gifts, I put a sticky note on the door:
‘Tomorrow. 9:30,’ ” he said.
Harris’s
annual trips to the gynecologist to “check her hymen” began after her
16th birthday, he said. Some people believe that the hymen, a thin
membrane located at the opening of the vagina, remains intact until a
woman has sex. This false indicator of virginity has been debunked by medical experts, and human rights organizations have called “virginity testing” both unnecessary and harmful for women.
Continuing
his story, T.I. said his daughter’s doctor requires her to sign a
waiver allowing him to see the results of her examination.
“So
we’ll go and sit down and the doctor will come and talk, and the
doctor’s maintaining a high level of professionalism,” T.I. said. “He’s
like, ‘Well you know, sir, I have to, to share information’ — I’m like,
‘Deyjah, they want you to sign this so we can share information. Is
there anything you would not want me to know? See, Doc? Ain’t no
problem.’ ”
Under the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act, also known as HIPAA,
a doctor may discuss a patient’s health status or treatment “if the
patient agrees, or when given the opportunity, does not object.”
The
rapper indicated his daughter’s gynecologist also explained other ways a
hymen can become stretched open, such as riding a bike, horseback
riding or other physical activities.
“I
say, ‘Look doc — she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bikes, she
don’t play no sports, man — just check the hymen, please, and give me
back my results expeditiously.” He added: “I will say, as of her 18th
birthday, her hymen is still intact.”
Mandi
and Moham laughed throughout the segment, and at one point, one of the
hosts quipped, “Somebody check on Deyjah, she’s a prisoner in her home.”
T.I.’s remarks went viral Wednesday, as many expressed concern over the
examination and controlling nature of his comments. He and Harris’s
publicists did not respond to emails from The Washington Post requesting
comment, though BuzzFeed News observed that Harris liked several tweets Wednesday criticizing her father, one of which labeled the situation “disgusting, possessive and controlling.”
Responding
to the story on Twitter, California OB/GYN Jen Gunter said it was
“horrible” and provided an in-depth explanation of why the hymen is not a
valid way to gauge a woman’s virginity.
“The
hymen is no virginity indicator, 50% of sexually active teens do not
have a disrupted hymen,” she wrote. “The hymen is often very flexible.”
As someone who damaged her hymen
while riding a bicycle at 11 years old, Jenn Jackson, an assistant
professor for political science at Syracuse University, found T.I.'s
anecdote particularly troublesome. She said Harris’s experience likely
resonates with many women, especially black women from religious
families, who are led to believe their sexual organs are tied to their
value and self-worth.
These
women are often told that for someone to love them they need to be
“pure” and “intact,” as if engaging in sexual activity means something
is wrong with them, said Jackson, who also conducts research in black
politics, gender and sexuality.
“[Harris]
is an adult — she can pretty much do what she wants — so why is he
still invested in what she does with her body?” Jackson said. “These are
the types of ways young girls are socialized to understand their bodies
do not belong to them, that they are a societal possession.”
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